2005-09-22 || 6:41 p.m.
.layer//MARRIAGE

Continuing on my previous entry. About marriages.
I wonder. Most of my friends' parents that I know are either divorced or unhappily married.
When you're divorced then it's cool. Like my parents, you know? Different views in life. Well he's a bastard, whatever. I'm not here to talk about my parents now.
When they're divorced it's cool. When they're not divorced but live with the grounds for divorce it means that they're unhappily married. If they're unhappily married and not getting a divorce that leads to either one or both of them having an affair or you know, just keep it in and stay unhappy until the day they die or something.
I am having the biggest problem with this affair thing.
It's not right. Definitely not right and just because everyone is doing it, does not make it right. Which is I think one of the main reasons why kids today have more than one you know... partners. Boyfriends or girlfriends. More than one. Here and there.
I really don't think it's okay. I mean that's playing with people's feelings. The kids today with this kind of attitude will become the adults of tomorrow just like adults today.
How fucked up is that?
There is no such thing as a relationship without emotions. If there's a relationship then there's emotion. Not necessarily love but emotions in general. Even going at it with let's say a prostitute involves emotions.
I won't stand to have my kids (someday, hopefully) to get fucked like this! Haha. Cheating is definitely wrong and that's why it's called cheating. It's never called for and if it happens I don't think we can say it's because of let's say alcohol influence or 'carried-away-by-the-moment'.
Ehehe, so if one day some friend of mine comes to me with their marital problems regarding this. I'm just going to have a little laugh inside. Well maybe outside too. Things happen for a reason and I believe that you get only one life so we have to make it worthwhile.
It's never the end of the world until you're dead.